#1 on My List

I love to-do lists.

There are a million things on my list on any given day.

Priority #1 on my list: Make sure the needs of HubbyHubby are met, and that he's taken care of.

Priority #2 on my list: Attend to everything else (kids, job, parents, PTA, hobbies, yadda-yadda-yadda).

Back to #1. HubbyHubby needs:

• Food

• Sex... or is it sex, then food? We'll get back to that later.

• Football

• "Gold Rush" (a TV show about a bunch of fellas digging for gold)

• Companionship

• Love

• Shoulder massages

• Attention

• Appreciation

• Kindness

• Words of affirmation

• Praise

• Encouragement

• Man time: TV, guys' night out, football, cigars and bourbon. He loves a good Kentucky bourbon.

The list actually goes on and on.

What does your hubby need?

Start a list of what he needs. Don't know? Ask him:

"Hey, hubby, what do you need?"

Make sure he comes first on your "list of things to do" today and every day.